Revitalizing your Love Life After Divorce


Going through a divorce is often a very sad and traumatic experience for all involved. It is not uncommon for many to feel a cloud of gloom and doom after a separation, convinced they will never find love again. The truth is, no matter what happens, life moves on and you will indeed find it in yourself to love again. Whilst this may seem like a whole load of mumbo jumbo in this present moment, do not let skepticism lead the way. In fact, we urge you to have faith that the sun will indeed come out again. In this article, we will look at how you can go about revitalizing your love life after divorce, so read on to find out more.

  1. Healing Is Of Utmost Importance

The last thing anyone should ever do is not take the time to heal and subsequently bring old baggage and issues into any new love relationship. This is why healing from your divorce and heartache is absolutely essential before throwing yourself back into the dating game again. Healing takes different amounts of time for each individual, so don’t feel like you have to “pull it together” by a certain deadline or timeframe. An established divorce lawyer shared with us that some people take up to a year or two to fully heal from old wounds, and that confidence takes time to rebuild itself. If you need to visit a therapist or speak to friends and family to assist in the healing process, we urge you to go ahead and do this. You will thank yourself for taking these essential steps towards healing before diving into the dating world again. Learn from past mistakes, let them go, and move on with your life. There is no need to wallow in guilt, shame or pain forever. This is step one towards revitalizing your love life after divorce.

  1.    Work On Your Confidence

It is no surprise to anyone that once people settle into married life, it is not uncommon for individuals to get comfortable and “let themselves go”. Now that you are single, you may want to take the time to build your confidence up again. Get that new haircut, go for a full makeover, update your wardrobe, start going to the gym again and do anything that makes you feel good about yourself once again. What makes you feel beautiful? What gives you that zest for life? Go out and do any and everything that will make you feel like a free spirit once again. Now that you’re going to step into the world of dating, you’ll feel amazing knowing that you not just look but also feel your best.

  1.          Welcome To The World Of Online Dating

One of the most popular ways for divorcees to find love again is via online dating. You may be a little rusty with the dating game, and online dating is a fantastic bridge towards meeting new people without feeling too out of your element. Online dating also opens you up to a diverse pool of different kinds of people (you can even search for other who have been through similar experiences as you) and allows you to mingle with people online before deciding to jump the gun and meet them in real life. Online dating is also a fantastic option for those who may be extremely busy with work and kids, as you can access applications and websites in your downtime, instead of hanging around a bar waiting to meet the man or woman of your dreams!

  1.       Be Sure Of What You Want

Now that you have been through the entire process of dating, getting engaged, getting married and then divorced, you’ll be more in tune with yourself, your own needs and exactly what you are both looking for and not looking for in a partner. Believe it or not, finding love the second time round is made easier when you’re equipped with this knowledge about yourself. You’ll be able to filter out people who just don’t meet your expectations, and focus more on people who are in sync with your lifestyle, needs and desires.

  1.        Let Go Of Your Fears

You are human, and it is only natural for human beings to be afraid of being hurt again. Now is the time to let go of your fears and inhibitions that keep your growth as an individual stunted, and go out and experience something new. Instead of being guarded and always on the defense, fully immerse yourself in the dating world. Always remember, rejection is a part of life, thus the quote “rejection is God’s protection”. Instead of being discouraged if things don’t work out in the first few months, choose to soldier on, face your fears and we guarantee you will be rewarded in the end.  


We hope that this article has given you the encouragement you’re searching for when it comes to revitalizing your love life after divorce.


Naomi Isted
Editor in Chief, Naomi Isted is known as The Ultimate Lifestylist to her readers and viewers. She is a TV Presenter and Columnist. Ranked in the Top 100 LFW Social Media Influencers AW14 & SS15, Brand Ambassador for Pears Soap UK. Her Celebrity beauty TV Series currently airs to 27million homes on Physique TV in UAE, previously on Wedding TV in the UK. She brings fashion and beauty advice to her readers and viewers on a daily basis. She is Fashion and Beauty Columnist for Herald Scotland and has a Fashion and Beauty Bridal Blog for HELLO. She can usually be found attending celebrity fashion and beauty events in and around London and sharing the latest fashion and beauty trends with her readers.

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