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It’s Important To Give Elderly Relatives The Support They Need

 

Throughout most of our lives, our parents and older relatives are the people that we turn to when we need help and support. As children we depend on them for everything, as teenagers, they are the stable emotional support that so many of us needed, and even as adults they can provide invaluable guidance that so many people simply couldn’t survive without. However, as both you and they start to get older, the balance shifts slightly. At first, you start to feel more like equals, but pretty much everyone has had the experience of a parent, grandparent, or older relative starting to need more help and support than they did before. It’s incredibly important that you provide the same level of care for them as they did for you. Here are just a few things that can help you do that.

Help them around the house

One of the most common ways that older people tend to need a lot of help is in getting things done around the house. Whether they’re having trouble with mobility or their eyesight, there are plenty of reasons why they might have difficulty taking care of their home. This also applies to things like grocery shopping as well. Sure, you probably won’t need to do everything for them,  but a little bit of help here and there can make their lives a whole lot easier and less stressful.

Just talk to them

Sometimes the support that an older person needs isn’t the practical kind at all but is more based on their emotional experience. After all, getting older can be tough and having someone to talk to and feeling as though people still care about you can do wonders for helping someone continue to feel valued as they get older. Taking the time out of your day to go and see them or simply talk to them on the phone really can make a huge difference in someone’s life.

Don’t take away their independence

One thing that you need to be incredibly careful about is the fact that it can be far too easy to assume that older people can’t do anything for themselves and you need to completely take over. This can be incredibly frustrating for a lot of people who simply want to hold onto their independence. Luckily there are ways to avoid falling into this trap. Instead of thinking that an older relative needs to be put into a home when they struggle to look after themselves, there are live in care services that can provide them with the help that they need while also allowing them to stay in their own space and retain a sense of their independence. Not only that but it means that you don’t have to sacrifice your entire life to look after them.

It’s never easy to watch someone who is an important part of your life getting older and starting to need more help to do even the simplest of things. And it’s totally alright if you need to take some time to step back for your own emotional well-being. If you’re not able to take care of yourself, you’re not going to be able to take care of anyone else.

Naomi Isted

Editor in Chief, Naomi Isted is known as The Ultimate Lifestylist to her readers and viewers. She is a TV Presenter and Columnist. Ranked in the Top 100 LFW Social Media Influencers AW14 & SS15, Brand Ambassador for Pears Soap UK. Her Celebrity beauty TV Series currently airs to 27million homes on Physique TV in UAE, previously on Wedding TV in the UK. She brings fashion and beauty advice to her readers and viewers on a daily basis. She is Fashion and Beauty Columnist for Herald Scotland and has a Fashion and Beauty Bridal Blog for HELLO. She can usually be found attending celebrity fashion and beauty events in and around London and sharing the latest fashion and beauty trends with her readers.

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